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I Wrote This for Her

Sep 10
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I’ve officially published my first poetry book!!!


Unloved & Loved began long before I knew it would become a book. Poetry was one of the first ways I learned to process love, heartbreak, disappointment, and the parts of myself I was still trying to understand. Eventually, I began to see that some of what I was writing wasn’t just about what I had lost. It was about what God was teaching me to receive.


Unloved & Loved is for the woman who has ever questioned whether she was worthy of being loved. For the lover girl navigating heartbreak. For the woman learning to choose herself. For anyone who has had to sit with loss and wonder what it meant about her.


Through The Beginning, The Middle, and Not the End, I write about grief, becoming, surrender, healing, and discovering a love that isn’t dependent on who chooses you. Because I’ve learned that love was never meant to be chased at the expense of yourself. And sometimes what feels like loss is making room for you to encounter something deeper.


This book is deeply personal, but it’s also my reminder that we can bloom from places we once thought would break us.


You are worthy.

You are deserving.

You were never meant to become smaller to be loved.


Unloved & Loved is finally here. 🤍


If any part of that journey sounds familiar, I hope you find a piece of yourself in these pages — and maybe a little more of God’s love, too.


 
 
 

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