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I Don’t See Things the Same Anymore

There are some things you can only understand after you’ve lived through them. My relationship with God has changed the way I see so much of life — especially rejection, relationships, love, and myself. I don’t see every closed door as something I need to force open anymore. I don’t feel the same need to convince people to choose me. I’m learning that what feels like rejection can sometimes be redirection, and what feels like loss can create room for something healthier to gr

I Wrote This for Her

I’ve officially published my first poetry book!!! Unloved & Loved began long before I knew it would become a book. Poetry was one of the first ways I learned to process love, heartbreak, disappointment, and the parts of myself I was still trying to understand. Eventually, I began to see that some of what I was writing wasn’t just about what I had lost. It was about what God was teaching me to receive. Unloved & Loved is for the woman who has ever questioned whether she was wo

Godfidence

There’s a difference between knowing what God has placed on your heart and actually doing something with it. I think about how easy it is to stay stagnant when we’re waiting for the “right” time, more clarity, or some perfect confirmation. But at some point, you have to move with what you already know. The more connected I’ve become to God and the more I’ve tried to show up as a servant of Christ, the more liberated I’ve felt. I call it Godfidence — the kind of confidence tha

Purpose Before Promotion

One verse that stayed with me this week was Isaiah 60:1: "Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord rises upon you." As I studied this chapter, I kept coming back to the idea of restoration and hope. It reminded me that God doesn't simply call us into something new. He prepares us for it first. I've seen this unfold in my life through Purpose Marketing. Launching my consulting business didn't feel forced or out of reach - it felt natural. The strategy,

Dating with Discernment

Dating has been interesting in this season of my life. There have been conversations, dates, moments of excitement, moments of disappointment, and yes, moments where someone has jokingly asked me, “So... why are you single?” And honestly, the answer is simple: I’m picky. Not because I think I’m perfect or because I believe no one is good enough, but because I’ve become more intentional. I date with purpose. As I’ve grown deeper in my faith, I’ve realized that dating is less a

Coming Home Grounds You

Coming back to New York City after nearly a year of living in Atlanta reminded me just how grounding home can be. There’s something about being back in the city where I was born and raised that instantly brings me back to myself. The loudness, the honesty, the rawness of NYC has always been part of what shaped me. It reminds me where so much of my resilience comes from and why I move through life the way I do. As much as Atlanta has become home and a place I’ve grown to love,

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