The Switch Up

You know when you’re talking to someone for a while and things are going great. They are saying all the things you need to hear and their actions are showing you they want you. But then suddenly they change, into someone you necessarily don’t like. They start treating you a little different than before. They start being dry with you, treating you with little to no respect. But they constantly reassure you that it’s not you. Issues from your past start to cloud your mind and you think ‘damn are you just another person that’s going to break my heart and screw me over.’

You’re battling past traumas you’ve gone through in relationships and comparing it to this one now. Thinking if you should be patient or say F it and move on. A part of you knows they’re a good person and they have a good heart, but that’s not what they are presenting to you at this point. They are showing you all the reasons of why you should let go. The person that you met, that you fell for is not who they are now. All you want is the energy you give to be reciprocated.

What I’ve learned from situations like this is that we think about the good person inside of them but they aren’t thinking about the good inside of us. If they were, they wouldn’t have switched up on us in the first place. ALWAYS REMEMBER TO PUT YOURSELF FIRST. You deserve someone who is going to be consistent and real with how they present themself and not try to bring you back to a place you have since evolved from long ago.

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