Bad Relationships
We all have had bad relationships that we have tried to repair or are in the process of repairing. Whether it’s with family, friends or your significant other. Some of us have given our all and put our feelings aside just to make a relationship work. Some would just rather push the issues under the rug and try to move on without solving them. The outcome of both will make the relationships worse.
Putting your own feelings to the side only hurts you. You’re not realizing that you’re putting your mental at risk and not thinking clearly about really fixing the issues. You’ll never be happy this way and or satisfied. Also pushing issues under the rug can cause more issues. Then one day you’ll snap and they’ll wonder why. You don’t want to snap out of nowhere looking crazy. Say exactly how you feel because if you don’t more issues will pile up on top of the other. Laying all the issues on the table and going from there. It’s really about understanding and being understood. If someone can’t see your point of view and you’re willing to see theirs then there’s no way of coming to a middle ground. You might just have to let them go and just pray and have hope for the relationship to be repaired, especially if it means a lot to you. But if not sometimes it’s better to just separate yourself because as long as you tried and kept an open mind to resolving the issues there’s nothing more you can do.
I use to hold things in, not really say how I feel, ignore what would be bothering me until I realized it made the situations worse to where I did have a snapping point. I had so much bottled up inside of me that I finally had to let it out and when I did it felt freeing. My advice is just don’t wait or put your feelings aside because you’re afraid to lose someone you love. If they care for you the same way you care for them, then compromise and understanding can be achieved.
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