Know Your Worth Pt. 2

Now let’s be honest with ourselves and get more in depth of knowing your self worth. It doesn’t only mean respecting yourself, loving yourself and knowing what you deserve but it also means knowing the kind of people you allow into your life. If you feel negative vibes from a person why continue to let them in, you're ignoring the red flags. I've ignored red flags myself and wondered why this person would be acting a certain way or moving funny. It's honestly because they've always acted that way and I ignored the signs. Sometimes we try to see the best in someone but you may be unaware of what you're signing yourself up for when ignoring the signs of what you don't like. On the other hand people don't fully act like themselves until they become comfortable. Some of us may do that because we don't want to be vulnerable and it's easier having your guard up. But then again I have been closed off and still missed signs of little things I didn't like because I wasn't paying attention.

I've noticed the similarities in my ex's and there are certain characteristics that are the same between them. This is because I'm attracting the same kind of guy over again by my actions. Same with a guy who keeps attracting the same women. We tend to think we change from a past relationship we have been in but that's not necessarily always true. If we are still attracting the same type of guy/girl then we are putting ourselves in that predicament. We have not grown or learned from our past but just move on to the next and not bring what we learned to the new relationship. You know how your supposed to be treated so don't let someone treat you any less. If you let them treat you the way they want and not the way you deserve then that is all on you. You can't grow with someone new being in the same mindset you were with someone in your past. Learning about yourself and gaining incite on a past relationship will help strengthen you to know how to build and grow with someone.